Hi Gang, hope you had an ace weekend, did some fun things and found some time to flick your off switch.
A Letter from Lisa
I get lots of emails via this site. Lots. Mostly, from people I don’t know and will never meet. Some are from people who want something. Some are business propositions (which is usually a little lop-sided). Some are from people who simply want to share a story with me. Some are from people who want to give me some… er… feedback.
And some emails, make me feel a little warm and fuzzy. Today, I thought I’d share something with you that I received yesterday. All the text in grey is exactly as I received it in the email.
Here’s a letter from Lisa…
“And, of course, we do it with our career. We keep hoping it will somehow magically fix itself (good luck with that). In truth, many of us are not really prepared to take charge, step into reality (step onto scales), make some tough decisions, take total responsibility and do what’s required to create positive shift in our professional life. So we compromise and tolerate… all our way to misery.” (an extract Lisa took from one of my posts).
Craig, I am one of your “lurkers”, avidly reading, rarely commenting. But thinking. Always thinking. And listening. I just wanted you to know, that you gave someone out there (me), the courage to make the change. (OK, I had to get righteously angry first), but this time I didn’t suck it up. I went out, applied for my dream job (never for a second believing I’d get it) — and 5 months later — I start on Monday. In the waiting room before every interview I read passages from you that I had saved from about a year ago…
“It’s time for you to stop empowering others and sabotaging yourself. Time to step out of the darkness of fear and into the light of your potential. You are worthy. You are good enough. You are talented. You are powerful. And you are loved and valued more than you know.” (another extract).
And when I got nervous:
“That quickening of your heart, that emotion you’re beginning to feel right now is me. Or should I say, you. The amazing you. The fearless you. The beautiful, talented, generous, kind and incredible you.” (and another).
I am getting emotional writing this to you, because I so deeply appreciate you laying the foundation for and giving me the boost to make this wonderful change in my life and letting me believe in myself again. I am now looking forward to making many more positive changes in my life — and I for the first time in many years, I truly believe that success will be mine. Two words seem inadequate, but it’s all I have — please understand how deeply they are meant — “thank you”. ~Lisa
Lisa, you are most welcome. It is my pleasure to (unknowingly) be a small part of your journey. And while I coached you (kind of), I did none of the work and took none of the risks. That was all you. You simply tapped into the potential that was always there. You opened a door that had been locked and turned my words into your actions. And your results. You made my theory your practical reality and you consciously created new experiences. You shifted your beliefs and expectations and you created the transformation – both in your physical (external) world and within yourself. Yep, all you.
It feels good doesn’t it?
Now you’re beginning to understand that you don’t need approval, permission or a cosmic sign to create and enjoy an exceptional life. All you need is courage, passion, focus, self-belief and resilience. There are no failures for you Lisa, only lessons, opportunities and experiences.
I love being able to encourage and support somebody I’ve never met. It’s very cool and rewarding. Some people don’t get why I invest so much (physically, emotionally and mentally) into this site. Well, letters like yours definitely help me to stay focused, committed, humble and productive. I believe that being able to share information, education, inspiration and motivation unconditionally through a resource like this is as valuable and transformational for me, as it is for any of my readers. It’s a privilege.
Lisa, keep doing what most people won’t. Keep being the solution girl. Keep asking better questions. Keep getting uncomfortable. Keep making the tough decisions. Keep exploring your potential. Keep being courageous and keep me posted on your progress.
Craig. xx
So Grasshoppers, I’m wondering if now is the time for you (yep, you – the person reading this right now) to step out of the idea and the theory of personal transformation and into the practical reality of it? Maybe you’ve read enough, heard enough, learned enough and thought enough? Perhaps, now is the time to do enough?
Just wondering.
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Hi, This is exactly what I needed to read today. Thankyou.
WOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!!! Go Lisa!
@Craig – I agree with Lisa – your encouraging blog is always a pleasure/gentle kick up the butt to help stir us “lurkers” into action.
(Sean always said I was so laid back that I would fall over) But it’s time for me to get up and make the most of whatever the future brings. Ta buddy!
Wow. I am touched and honoured
LIsa has made excellent points and I hope she has a happy life.
HI Craig,
I’d like to tell you that your site has helped me a number of times on those days where i just feel like its too hard. You give me the ongoing inspiration and motivation to DO SOMETHING and accept responsibility for my own life.
I want to share a specific example with you of just how much you touch our lives. Last wednesday after reading one of your posts i decided to take back control of where my life was going and got brave enough to ask my recently ex-partner if i could meet up with him for quick chat. He agreed, much to my amazement, and along with my newfound courage and confidence (thanks to you Craig) i met him for lunch. I told him i still loved him very much (a VERY scary thing to do as i am sure other people out there can relate to) and that i didnt want to just throw what we had away and i that i thought we had something special enough to fight for. I told him i am not prepared to just let it dwindle away. Now a few months ago i would not have had the confidence to do this. But today….thanks largely to your posts here…..i am finally ready to take the wheel back and drive this life of mine down the highway. I have no idea where this is all going to lead me BUT the main thing is that i am not being a passenger and when i want something that i truly believe in i am going to GO FOR IT.
I am no longer ruled by fear………it doesnt matter to me now what actually happens with my ex and i….what matters most is that i TOLD HIM how i feel and that i am prepared to FIGHT FOR WHAT I BELIEVE IN. If it doesnt work out that he wants that same thing as me then it doesnt matter. It means i can walk away knowing i gave it my best and i wasnt afraid to take a chance. I now have the confidence to take many more risks in my life.
A huge THANK YOU Craig for making a REAL difference in peoples lives
I totally agree with all the comments on your article, and am going to follow Lisa’s example and copy some of the statements that have particular meaning for me, and read them when I falter.
I also have been ruled by fear, Craig, as I have hesitated in taking my business to the next level, but the fear was of success rather than failure! Having spent most of my life wallowing in mediocrity (because it’s easier and safer), I’m going to follow the example of you and your readers and get out there and succeed. I know exactly what I need to do, so now I’m going to do it!!!!
I join Lisa in saying a big ‘thank you’ for a very timely wake-up call.
Well done Lisa “You go girl!”
Craigo, I have been reading your blogs for 2.5 years now, I came across it through the Weight Watchers site there discussion blogs.(if you didn’t know it your a huge hit with them).
I firmly believe that if it wasn’t for your cyber world here at you dot com, I would not have achieved all that I now take control of in my life.
I can totally relate to Lisa & the job thing (went for a job that I wanted to do since high school, now I’m 46 and loving life) unfortunately I didn’t get the position but I learn’t so much about me in the process it was just a fantastic experience.
I now look outside the square a little bit more and do things that I never thought I would try and my life is so much richer for the experiences.
I agree with Lisa “thank you” seems such a little thing to say but it is said from the heart
What a ripper!!!!
No no no not yet for me. Congrats to Lisa and all those with the courage to step out, I shall keep on lurking for a while, still reading, searching, looking for “it”, I’ll know it when I find it. How can I move forward when I don’t know what I want? Been reading for long time and some nights when that icon pops up in the inbox my excitement knows no bounds until I read and think ok, thats right, buuuuttt tomorrow Craig might just give me the step by step 1, 2, 3 that I need to do so I shall wait another day, whats 24 hours in a lifetime.
Please Craig STOP. I feel like I just want to pack up and go overseas.. travelling..
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