Comments on: Kissing http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/ Personal Development Life Lessons Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:09:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Anonymous http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-27206 Anonymous Fri, 12 Nov 2010 22:35:35 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-27206 Typo ALERT ALERT I think I now an ace kisser…should be I think I KNOW an ace kisser..how embaressing not me - him.. I still have a long way to go - I am like on my L plates Typo ALERT ALERT

I think I now an ace kisser…should be I think I KNOW an ace kisser..how embaressing not me – him.. I still have a long way to go – I am like on my L plates

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-27205 Anonymous Fri, 12 Nov 2010 21:34:53 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-27205 I think I now an ace kisser… An ace kisser puts his whole body and emotion into a kiss. He wants to be close and feel affection with plenty of soft gentle lip-action. Each kiss is a build-up of feelings and emotions coming from within and explodes into my own inner being. Every kiss teases my senses; varies in style and pressure, tickles my neck, whispers in my ear... And kissing isn't just for the lips only: earlobes, shoulders and all the other parts that feel good. A tip for girls.. kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one gal likes isn't going to always work for another. If a guy tells us that you will love his kissing because other gals have, chances are he is the one-size-fits-all type. A genuine guy will not assume that because he has kissed zillion gals who liked it, we are going to like it too. A know a genuine guy who is a really ace kisser and is leaving me wanting more of him. Pucker Up.. I think I now an ace kisser…

An ace kisser puts his whole body and emotion into a kiss.

He wants to be close and feel affection with plenty of soft gentle lip-action.

Each kiss is a build-up of feelings and emotions coming from within and explodes into my own inner being.

Every kiss teases my senses; varies in style and pressure, tickles my neck, whispers in my ear…

And kissing isn’t just for the lips only: earlobes, shoulders and all the other parts that feel good.

A tip for girls.. kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one gal likes isn’t going to always work for another. If a guy tells us that you will love his kissing because other gals have, chances are he is the one-size-fits-all type.

A genuine guy will not assume that because he has kissed zillion gals who liked it, we are going to like it too.

A know a genuine guy who is a really ace kisser and is leaving me wanting more of him.

Pucker Up..

]]> By: Shar Dunn http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17300 Shar Dunn Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:03:25 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17300 Personally, I would prefer to think that a potential mate would be completely honest with me, and tell me I had bad breath etc. but as I have discovered that unlike myself, not everyone enjoys being told the brutal truth about themselves, this may not be the best advice in this situation. It is important to remember though that the kiss, pash, snog whatever you want to call it, is an integral part of any relationship, and even if everything else about the relationship might be fantastic, bad kissing could bring down the whole thing from the inside. Hugs, pecks on the lips, even hand holding can fill some of that void, but nothing can equal the feelings created by the intimate pash with your partner, or even a stranger if by chance you get the opportunity. It can even take the place of foreplay, if it's good enough. A good kiss can linger all day, putting a smile on your face every time it comes to mind, and making your body relive those warm feelings over and over again. So I guess what I'm trying to say is that this issue is worth fixing as soon as possible, if the relationship is worth holding on to! Good luck to your friend Craig, & if it doesn't go well, there are millions of fish in the sea! Life is good, even if it's not sometimes! Personally, I would prefer to think that a potential mate would be completely honest with me, and tell me I had bad breath etc. but as I have discovered that unlike myself, not everyone enjoys being told the brutal truth about themselves, this may not be the best advice in this situation. It is important to remember though that the kiss, pash, snog whatever you want to call it, is an integral part of any relationship, and even if everything else about the relationship might be fantastic, bad kissing could bring down the whole thing from the inside.

Hugs, pecks on the lips, even hand holding can fill some of that void, but nothing can equal the feelings created by the intimate pash with your partner, or even a stranger if by chance you get the opportunity. It can even take the place of foreplay, if it’s good enough. A good kiss can linger all day, putting a smile on your face every time it comes to mind, and making your body relive those warm feelings over and over again. So I guess what I’m trying to say is that this issue is worth fixing as soon as possible, if the relationship is worth holding on to!

Good luck to your friend Craig, & if it doesn’t go well, there are millions of fish in the sea!

Life is good, even if it’s not sometimes!

]]> By: lisa http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17298 lisa Thu, 12 Nov 2009 12:45:03 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17298 Haven't stopped laughing... When I visited Make-Out Central (Paris) I was stunned by the passionate kissing everywhere, but I'm half French so being there made me feel normal. I've never been in Craig's friend's situation but that's because "eight minute" relationships didn't qualify for a wet one!! I know , that might sound wierd and prudish but if there's foreplay to a kiss it's more tantalising and you're well aware if there's going to be a problem before you're "ingesting" it. Good to know what a pash is, I would have thought it was something more fun. for Anon 3- you must be a dude... :) Haven’t stopped laughing…
When I visited Make-Out Central (Paris) I was stunned by the passionate kissing everywhere, but I’m half French so being there made me feel normal.

I’ve never been in Craig’s friend’s situation but that’s because “eight minute” relationships didn’t qualify for a wet one!! I know , that might sound wierd and prudish but if there’s foreplay to a kiss it’s more tantalising and you’re well aware if there’s going to be a problem before you’re “ingesting” it.

Good to know what a pash is, I would have thought it was something more fun.
for Anon 3- you must be a dude… :)

]]> By: CHroupie http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17297 CHroupie Thu, 12 Nov 2009 09:49:41 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17297 Vin - "There is nothing like a good pash" - I love it! The most sensible thing anyone has written all day :) Kissing has to be one of the best things we humans get to do when it's done right. Seriously Craig, let's take out the percentages, isn't it about who it's with and just how into that person you are? When two people, regardless of gender, race, age, whatever, are genuinely connecting, there is nothing like a good kiss. Wet, soft, hard, tongue, lips - it's all just so frickin good! There's no formula, no recipe, no criteria. If it's right, there is definitely goose bumps and there is a need to go back for more, and more and more. Wow, I think I need to go and have some time with myself. LOL! Oh - and Anon 3 - "When I think of you I think of a plant" - priceless. Thanks! Vin – “There is nothing like a good pash” – I love it! The most sensible thing anyone has written all day :)

Kissing has to be one of the best things we humans get to do when it’s done right. Seriously Craig, let’s take out the percentages, isn’t it about who it’s with and just how into that person you are? When two people, regardless of gender, race, age, whatever, are genuinely connecting, there is nothing like a good kiss. Wet, soft, hard, tongue, lips – it’s all just so frickin good! There’s no formula, no recipe, no criteria. If it’s right, there is definitely goose bumps and there is a need to go back for more, and more and more.

Wow, I think I need to go and have some time with myself. LOL!

Oh – and Anon 3 – “When I think of you I think of a plant” – priceless. Thanks!

]]> By: Mandi B http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17296 Mandi B Thu, 12 Nov 2009 09:43:09 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17296 A little lesson in oral hygiene could help combat the bad breath situation... However I'd be a tad concerned that if "first base" wasn't that flash, would he be able to hit a home run????? A little lesson in oral hygiene could help combat the bad breath situation… However I’d be a tad concerned that if “first base” wasn’t that flash, would he be able to hit a home run?????

]]> By: Michael http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17294 Michael Thu, 12 Nov 2009 08:37:12 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17294 What about men kissing each other? Are we more comfortable as Australian men doing that without it being automatically assumed you are not hetrosexual? Example, my friend works in a high end shop in Brisbane and he has a female partner, but one day he kissed me on the lips. Now, this happened ages ago but the point is he does the same with the male and female members of his family and some of his close friends. Nobody thinks twice when we go to family functions and no one says anything. It could be their Itailan background but to do that in Brisbane 20 years go meant a night in Boggo Road. But brings up the interesting concept that these days it seems that blokes giving a hug and kiss is fine. Have Australian men gotten to the stage where they are comfortable enough to recognise same sex kiss does not equal change of sexuality? What about men kissing each other? Are we more comfortable as Australian men doing that without it being automatically assumed you are not hetrosexual? Example, my friend works in a high end shop in Brisbane and he has a female partner, but one day he kissed me on the lips. Now, this happened ages ago but the point is he does the same with the male and female members of his family and some of his close friends. Nobody thinks twice when we go to family functions and no one says anything. It could be their Itailan background but to do that in Brisbane 20 years go meant a night in Boggo Road. But brings up the interesting concept that these days it seems that blokes giving a hug and kiss is fine. Have Australian men gotten to the stage where they are comfortable enough to recognise same sex kiss does not equal change of sexuality?

]]> By: Vin http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17293 Vin Thu, 12 Nov 2009 05:16:01 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17293 There is nothing like a good pash, even after 23 years of marriage. :-) There is nothing like a good pash, even after 23 years of marriage. :-)

]]> By: Cdn friend http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17292 Cdn friend Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:49:10 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17292 I think I laughed just as much from the comments as I did from Craigy-Boy today. Thanks everyone for the technicolour visuals!! I think I laughed just as much from the comments as I did from Craigy-Boy today. Thanks everyone for the technicolour visuals!!

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.craigharper.com.au/relationships/kissing/#comment-17291 Anonymous Thu, 12 Nov 2009 03:52:23 +0000 http://www.craigharper.com.au/?p=3416#comment-17291 Bad breath? No problem. Kiss something else. The mouth isn't the only intimate part of the human body you can kiss. Actually the mouth isn't the only part that can stink bad and completely turn you off your tuna fish sandwich. Ladies, remember to wash. Yes the vagina is self cleaning but it doesn't come with it's own soap. And you men, when you take your socks off don't thread the sock through your toes to clean in between them with the same vigor as a man sawing a tree in half and then smell the sock cause that's just not on. Especially for a toe sucker like me. Sorry but the heats picked up and the peak hour trains and the lifts are packed and i can smell everyone's everything and i want to vomit. I'd rather ride with cattle. Summer Stinks. Bad breath? No problem. Kiss something else. The mouth isn’t the only intimate part of the human body you can kiss. Actually the mouth isn’t the only part that can stink bad and completely turn you off your tuna fish sandwich. Ladies, remember to wash. Yes the vagina is self cleaning but it doesn’t come with it’s own soap. And you men, when you take your socks off don’t thread the sock through your toes to clean in between them with the same vigor as a man sawing a tree in half and then smell the sock cause that’s just not on. Especially for a toe sucker like me. Sorry but the heats picked up and the peak hour trains and the lifts are packed and i can smell everyone’s everything and i want to vomit. I’d rather ride with cattle. Summer Stinks.

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