Creative You
Remember how much fun you had when you were a kid? Inventing cool stuff. Creating your own games. Decorating your bedroom like some weird-ass shrine to your fave singer/actor/band. Being a rock star in front of the mirror. Making up stupid songs with your stupid friends. Killing bad guys (maybe that was just me). Singing, dancing, drawing, painting, writing fantastical stories. Telling awesome lies to get out of stuff (me again). Generally being creative. You didn’t need to worry about what your singing voice sounded like, whether or not your dancing looked silly or whether your stories made much sense at all. It didn’t matter one bit because it was all about freedom of expression, developing your creative self, hanging out with your friends and of course, having fun. It was mostly about fun. And you had plenty. Because you were creating.
Early Retirement
You only learned to worry and be self-conscious about your creative self as you got older. And what a sad day it was when you learned that lesson. As you became more and more self-conscious, you became less and less creative and adventurous. You sang less, danced less, created less and took less chances. Had less fun too. Creative You became completely agoraphobic – never wanting to leave the house. Scared of public places and attention. Creative You went into semi-retirement. Looking out the window every day but rarely coming out to play.
You do remember Creative You don’t you? And you do remember when you didn’t care what people thought about your ability or talent? It was much easier then wasn’t it? When was the last time you two spoke? It’s probably been a while. Pity.
Let me out!
If you’re like many people, then Creative You is still in there somewhere desperately waiting to be heard once again. Desperately wanting to play a part in your life. Or just play. Wanting to make you smile like you once did. Wanting to sing into that hairbrush, roll in the dirt, shoot the bad guy, write the fairytale, create the award-winning play and do fun stuff just because you can. Not because it’s strategic or timely, not because it’s what’s expected and certainly not because it makes sense. No, simply because it’s fun and being creative is part of who you are.
Or who you once were.
Sadly, logical and grown-up you has been running the show for too long. Creative You hasn’t been seen or heard from for years. Sometimes he (she) tries to be heard but sensible, clever you simply talks louder. Sometimes sensible, clever you is an idiot.
Something from nothing
I believe passionately that many of us are happiest when we’re creating. Taking an idea and turning it into a ‘something’. A theory, a thought into a reality. Creating and innovating rather than duplicating and imitating. Very cool.
Like Sir Ken Robinson, I believe that most of our educational systems actually beat the creative desire out of our kids. By the time they reach their teenage years they have learned that singing, dancing, inventing, painting, drawing and expressing their creativity is less than desirable out in the real world and should take a back seat to all things academic. Not that we all need to be performers or artists (as such), but we do all need to express our creativity because on some level, that’s who we are. Without creativity and original thought we simply become boring, unfulfilled clones of each other.
“I’m not sure what I think, what do you think I should think?”
We’re so worried about fitting in and not looking foolish that we get scared to let our creative self have a voice. If I didn’t let my creative self have a voice this blog wouldn’t exist and you wouldn’t be reading this article. Your life would be craig-harper-less (stop it).
Okay, bad example.
Two years ago I didn’t know what a blog was and all of my writing was for magazines and books. It was mostly academic-type, science-based articles about health and fitness – not always riveting stuff. For too long I had not let my creative self have a voice (when it came to my writing anyway). I worried – “what if I write something that I find hilarious, amusing and entertaining but nobody else does?”
The genesis of medotcom
So with Johnnie kicking my ass, I decided to take a chance, create a blog and write about whatever I wanted to, rather than what my editors wanted or what other people thought was appropriate to come from the keyboard of an exercise scientist dude. I have since learned to love the creative freedom of a blog. To love having no editors. No rules. To write about what I want, when I want and if I want.
No rules
If I want to write something funny, I can. Philosophical, I can do that too. Thought-provoking, yep. Controversial, no problem. If I want to be a motivator on Tuesday, a scientist on Wednesday and a story-teller on Thursday, that’s okay – cause there ain’t no rules on my blog. I can even use horrible grammar and misspell wurdz because this crap doesn’t get marked!!! And I can say crap too!
There are probably lots of sensible reasons why I shouldn’t be a creative writer and even more reasons why you shouldn’t listen to me – you know I have issues right? But hey, I’m gonna keep doing it anyway ’cause it’s kinda fun.
Besides, I like creative me the most.
If the last time you did something creative was in the eighties, then why don’t you surprise yourself today. Do something different. Stop doing the same. Don’t do it because it’s sensible, mature, responsible or strategic, do it because it gives you pleasure and it’s part of who you are.
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Now let me think, doing life craig-harper-less, no joy in that.
So please, dont use that language again.
Doing life dull, colourless and boring, no joy in that either.
C.H. thank you, for being part of my life, lots of joy in that.
No, I can’t remember the creative me.
I think that’s part of my struggle in the past few years. I don’t KNOW what I want to do for fun!!!! Although blogging has certainly been a wonderful find in that regard. Who knew it could be so much fun????
Just finished decorating my kitchen…it is a weird-ass shrine to Mr Harper (Rock Star).
It is cream in color, smells of cheese and my fridge is choc-a -block full with… cheesecake!
Pretty creative, huh?
OK maybe just weird…
Please don’t let the Food Police (or anyone else for that matter) come and lock me away…
Anyway, you still rock Craig!
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I didn’t realise that writing could be an expression of creativity before. Perhaps, it was because I started out blogging about topics that I was interested in but had no strong passion for.
It only hit me recently, when I found my life purpose and experience greater joy with blogging about it. I have discovered the “Creative Me”, in all respects!
Hi Craig,
Thanks for the reminder. I have a new saying that I use to bid people farewell: “Be naughty.” I think it has the childlike spirit you describe. I should endeavor to actually accept the challenge!
CH – this time you are peaching to the converted:) I was told in yr 7 I was not very creative – I am a published and successful decorative artist in my spare time and I still like to dip a brush in paint, thread a needle and make a stitch, make a strange concoction called food in my kitchen, go wild on a dance floor and sing like there is no tomorrow…more serious creativity comes out when I struggle to teach some strange concept or other to my students at school. I have always said there is no such thing as ‘I am not very creative’…it’s there – you just forgot how to use it. We are all artists of some sort. Thanks for posting this one today
Jen from Mildura
Hello Anon 1. You’re welcome – glad to be part of your life. ( )
Hi Lightening – Creative You is still in there and there’s so much fun to be had by you! Enjoy your week…. ( )
Hello Anon 2.
A shrine to me? You are weird. I like that!
Cheers ( )
Hi Evelyn – good for you. Keep being creative… ( )
Naughty Stephanie…. yep, I like it ( )
Hi Creative Jen… good for you. Thanks for sharing ( )
I’m with you Craig. I love the creative side – do you also get called “left of centre”. I love to not follow rules, have fun and live life. Being creative..having passion…all good. Thanks Craig. You’re an inspiration.
It’s about time that we all ask ourselves: When is the last time that you made a friend that’s imaginary?
I’m not sure that I’ve ever had a creative me, but I’ll go searching for it from today. Just gotta decide where to start looking…..
Thanks for your blog I’ve only recently discovered it and I’ve been really enjoying it, although it does waste LOTS of my time.
cheers Lenny
Hi Anon 3. Yep, Mr Left of Centre!
Cheers ( )
Hey Kelvin – now you are a man who knows how to be creative. We could all learn from you.
For the rest of you, this man is an awesome puppeteer, story teller and artist.
Cheers Kel ( )
I know you don’t like hugs but I couldn’t help myself…
Hi Lenny. It’s only a waste of time if you don’t use what you learn! Glad you’re enjoying it.
Enjoy your week ( )
Hi there craig- really enjoy reading your ideas on this one.
When H was three , I took her to these arty classes for kids. I thought they were the type of classes where kids just could make a huge mess and do what came to them. It turned about that they were very “ directed” and the kids came out with pictures and pastings that all looked exactly the same. And you know why? Because all the parents would take over. Eyes, ears mouths all had to be in the “perfect positions- instead of letting the kids just “ do” and enjoy and benefit from the process. The parents ended up doing their kids art because it “ needed” to look a certain way. It made the whole experience ( apart from spending time with their parents) a bit dumb- don’t you think?
I finally asked the teacher “ can my daughter just do what she wants with the paper and paint and create her own frog?” It was met with a few tongue clicks….. Yeah for me!!!!
Half of the effort at our house to get it ready for selling was removing all the kiddy art and blue tac from the walls and the built up paint from the floor, Im proud to say.
I even started up a blog for H called – “megasketchermayhem” because I have been taking pictures of her megasketcher pictures . Remember megasketchers or Magnadoodles?? The descriptions she comes up with for her pictures are hilarious. I cant bare the thought of loosing them , so god bless the digital camera. I started it only hours before your new blog came through in my email. Im such proud mum…..lol
As for my own creativity- im a muso, but I am always so envious of arty people. The most I can do is grab a canvass from the reject shop and paint some weird shit on it. It looks good…some don’t though…but you gotta have a crack at it. If it doestnt work you can aways paint over the top of if. Painting makes me ( forces me to??) breath through my nose….its very relaxing. Hey I forgot though, i did write something for the xmas blog didnt i??
Sorry if this has been a long response….. ive been working hard over the last 4 weeks and finally feel relaxed again.
Cheers
pen
Yay for blogging and being able to express oneself even if there is only one person who has fun with it (ie. me.
Obviously you are very good at this stuff Craig because you always get tons of comments.
And another big yay for digital cameras. Once upon a time I was very conservative with taking photos because it cost so much to develop, now I can take hundreds of photos and some of them are actually quite good even if I do say so myself. Photography is my creative outlet.
HI Pen. Thanks for dropping by and sharing… ( )
GO Deb! You creative thing you!
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Hail to Ken Robinson!!! Fav quote of his – ‘don’t fear being wrong’!! Goes hand-in-hand with our fear of being wrong creatively too..
Now whilst no-one I know likes me being creative in the Kitchen…. (they have a point and besides I have so many other places I’d rather be anyway)…It should only matter in my world – whatever I do – that ‘I’ like what I create!!
I have just begun another Journal called my Want – When – How Journal (courtesy of a blank Journal Mothers Day gift given to me by my daughter). Now that’s got my creative juices flowing…
Thanks Craig
Craig:
You touched on something VERY IMPORTANT here – just be yourself.
That’s what people want from you. We are constantly bombarded with “fake” people who try to impress us with unending lists of credentials and puffed-up bravado.
Who cares? Fake people can be seen a mile away.
My take away from your article? Be yourself. Let the inner child come out and people will love you even if you aren’t perfect.
You already know from commenting on an article I did about speaking in front of a bunch of hard-core engineers who experienced adversity on the job every single day. They dealt with irate clients and Mother Nature at its worst. I was concerned about reaching out to them but when I realized all of them wanted to see a real person up on stage, I felt like “one of them.”
Doing something creative is a gift from God. We must remember to use it. Never mind trying to sound like Winston Churchill or the like. It doesn’t work.
For instance, I’ve been deaf since birth. I know I sound different. So what? If I am comfortable with my hearing disability and let creativity flow through me, then I am giving people “permission” to be okay with me.
One of the funniest or weirdest things I’ve encountered are situations when I meet people in the elevator. The moment I open my mouth, I always get a reaction in the other person’s face. They immediately know I’m not “normal.”
That used to bother the heck out of me until one day I realized that was what made me unique. So I began to see their initial reactions as “amusing” rather than allowing myself to be offended. And do you know what? They instantly become at ease and chat with me as if we were long lost friends.
Bottom line? Be yourself. Thanks for reminding us Craig. You are awesome. Way cool, if I may add.
Hey Goal Power – you’re most welcome… ( )
Hi Stephen. Who wants to be ‘normal’? – normal is boring!
Thanks for telling us a little about you – enjoy your day/night.
This post came to my inbox after I had already decided to renew a passion of mine – ballet. I go to my “first” class in a week’s time and I am damned excited about it. I hope I get some killer thighs out of it as well hehe!
Hello Craig Harper !
I have only just found your website after having been led here via a post on a weight watchers message board. And I have to say I’m glad I found it and am looking forward to reading more of your articles when I can. Re this one – thanks for the reminder ! I am somewhat of a creative writer (on & off) and was so good to hear that part of me ( and everyone else) revered and encouraged. Thanks for that…..look forward to reading more of your wisdom and words…….CreativeMe