It’s not often that I start writing a post while having no idea where it might end up.
In fact, I’ve never done it.. but today is such a day.
I know vaguely what I want to chat about, but that’s it.
Mr I’ve-got-a-plan.. doesn’t have one.
Mr I-know-exactly-what-I-want-to get-across.. is clueless.
Mr Clarity.. has none.
So I’m gonna start writing and see what comes out.
I’m calling this experience freestyle blogging 101; no set plan, no clearly defined objectives; just an old, ex-bodybuilder running (okay, jogging) head-first into the literary wilderness and possibly, a spiritual mine-field.
Alright, it’s a brisk walk.
Giddyup.
Here I go; 1,2,3…
Johnnie (my business manager, web-site guru, girl Friday and buddy) threw down the challenge yesterday for me to get a little adventurous and to explore something different with my next post.
“Stop talking about motivation, attitude, goal setting and carbs… I’m over it”, he said.
Apparently I’m boring him.
Sorry John.
And being as he’s my chief proof reader (a crap one, I might add), we wouldn’t want him to lose focus would we?
He’s all I’ve got!
So here it comes; different.
No goal-setting tips.
No twelve-steps to anything.
No motivational masterpiece.
And no how-to-change-yer-life-by-next-Tuesday pep talk.
Blame baldy.
You’ve all heard me say many times that we are multi-dimensional, complex, amazing beings.
And nearly every day on this site I talk about how we might create positive change in all areas of our lives and day-to-day reality; ways that we might learn, grow, change, improve, adapt, help others, live more effectively and understand more.
And having pumped out about two hundred posts/articles (over quarter of a million words!) on this site over the last nine months, there’s one area I’ve consciously dared not tread.
It’s known technically as the Oogabooga stuff.
Most of what I’ve written about to this point in time has explored the head stuff, the heart stuff, the body stuff and of course, the practical.
And I guess in some ways I don’t feel qualified to talk about life beyond the physical world we live in… but fortunately for you and I, we don’t need to be qualified to have an opinion or a personal philosophy… and we don’t need anyone’s approval to voice our thoughts or share our ideas.
So I’ll share mine with you.. and then you can let me know how (you think) I’ve gone.
Let me know if I’m way off.
Or in the ball park.
(I can take it).
Keeping in mind that we’re about meaningful, thoughtful exchanges here.. not about trying to ram our beliefs down someone else’s throat.
I’m guessing most of us agree that.. while on one level we are all a bunch of muscles, tendons, bones and squishy organs, on another level, we are also spiritual beings.
Not that many of us know exactly what that means, but on some level, we feel there’s gotta be something ‘else’… we have this sense that ‘this’ isn’t all there is.
I think if I took a poll on this right now we would get a consensus on this.
Alright, let’s do it.
Pay attention world.
Hands up if you think we’re physical, emotional, cerebral and spiritual beings.
Okay, lemme count… 1, 2, 3, …. 4,235,790,337, 4,235,790,338, 4,235,790,339… yep, it’s confirmed; most of us believe there’s more.
We don’t necessarily understand what that means… but we do believe there is something else; some kind of spiritual realm.
More than this physical world we live in.
More than we have experienced to this point in time.
More than what we can see, touch, smell and experience with our physical senses.
More than we might understand with our highly developed, logical, rational, scientific brains.
Sometimes we don’t want to acknowledge that there might be more than what our eyes, ears and brain can perceive (a spiritual realm perhaps) because:
(1) It makes us uncomfortable.. if not, totally scares the crap out of us.
(2) We don’t really want to explore it, as it might require a level of change on our behalf… and we’re kinda comfy and secure where we are.
(3) We’ve got absolutely no idea where or how to start the journey and
(4) We’ve had bad experiences with certain ‘religious’ organisations or people… or both.
I’m hearin’ ya.
All too often people (and their numerous issues) get in the way of others experiencing something truly amazing on a spiritual level.
Many of us grew up with some kind of theology (philosophy, ideology) imposed on us.
If mum and dad were Catholics, Mormons or Quakers… there’s a fair chance you’re not gonna be a Buddhist by your tenth birthday (or vice-versa).
Put simply, most of us believe (accept, embrace, default to) whatever our parents believe because that’s how we’ve been programmed; that’s the only story we’ve heard (this is not intended to be an insult or criticism but rather, my observation).
When you’re seven years-old, you’re not gonna come out with:
“Hey, you know what dad… I’m not sure about your perspective on the whole God, universe, eternity, spirituality thing… In fact, I’ve done some significant research, weighed it all up… and I think your theology is essentially flawed. Take a seat you ignorant old, brain-washed fart and let me enlighten you.”
No, when you’re seven.. it’s more like:
“Reaaaally…. wow… seven feet tall, huge feet, floppy ears, free chocolate… cooooool!!”
(Okay, perhaps that was just me).
When you have certain ideologies and philosophies re-enforced from birth, you don’t even question them.
Right or wrong.. is not even an issue.
In fact, many of us were taught from a young age “we’re right and all the others are wrong.”
Some of us were taught (instructed) not to consider or explore other theologies or spiritual philosophies.
And if we did (step out of our designated spiritual box), it was cause for great concern.
“Luke.. this is your father….stay away from the dark side.”
Err.. but that would be indoctrination wouldn’t it?
Manipulation perhaps?
Almost, dare I say it… ‘cult-ish’ behaviour?
Nooooo… not us.
Others do that, we don’t.
We just don’t want you to be mislead… or to see you get hurt.
“Anyway, we’re all going to heaven, they’re not.”
Shame.
Oh well, we’re okay.
Lucky us.
“The others think they know… but only we really know. “
“It’s a good thing that only we (our particular religion, denomination) have that exclusive spiritual hot-line to Elohim, Allah, Yahweh, Bhagavan, Jesus, The Buddha, God (insert the deity of your choice).”
Hey… wouldn’t it be ironic if the very thing which retarded our spiritual development and understanding was in fact, religion?
After all, we know that religion is a man-made thing… not a God-made thing right?
How great would religion be if people weren’t involved??!
I’d join.
In my experience (don’t ya love that as a disclaimer?) sometimes we need to wade through all the human stuff.. before we can even get a wiff of any spiritual truth.
Sometimes ‘religion’ is a synonym for division.
And a catalyst for war, bloodshed, pain, suffering, intolerance and hatred.
I personally find that so weird.
And sad.
If was a researcher from another planet and I was studying human behaviour on a global scale.. I don’t think I’d be in any hurry to get ‘religious’.
But then we shouldn’t really confuse religion with spirituality because often… they have very little to do with each other.
In truth, some very ‘religious’ people have never had a spiritual experience in their life.
Maybe what gets in the way of our spiritual development is in fact, logic.
Logic based on science.
We are a culture which reveres science; it makes us feel safe and smart.
It’s the basis for our understanding of most things.
Science which is at odds with a spiritual world.
Are you still with me?
(Even I’m confused and I’m writing it!).
But in all that ‘learning’ perhaps we shut ourselves down to something much more amazing and liberating than anything we could grasp (see, measure, quantify) with our logical, scientific, limited understanding.
What if there is a world beyond our conventional science and thinking… beyond what we know?
And what if we’ve been missing out on something amazing because we’re too fearful, proud, stubborn or ‘intelligent’ to consider that there might be something more?
Something incredible.
Something more exciting, rewarding, liberating and mind-blowing than any ‘thing’ we could ever achieve, own or create on a human or practical level.
Sadly, many people never even begin to explore their own spirituality; they don’t get to know their spiritual selves.
It scares them.
They’ve been ‘taught’ to fear the unfamiliar.
Sad.
I have a friend who put his hands over his ears and opts for the “la, la, la.. don’t wanna know, don’t wanna know”.. option whenever a conversation about that ’spiritual stuff’ permeates his world.
“Don’t talk about that stuff; it creeps me out”, he says.
“But aren’t you even a little interested or intrigued”, I ask.
“Nuh!!”
When I suggest that even he might be more than a collection of bones, biceps and brain.. he changes the subject.
And then we have those people who create their own version of a particular religion or spiritual philosophy to ‘fit in’ with how they want to live their life.
Interesting concept.
“I’ll believe in something as long as it doesn’t impede on my lifestyle.”
“Welcome to the ‘Church (Synagogue, Temple, Mosque) of Perpetual Convenience’.. we’ll never put you out… just believe the bits of our book that suit you.”
These days in our schools it’s common place for kids to be taught that if they can’t see it, touch it, hear it, measure it, analyse or quantify it… it probably doesn’t exist.
But what if it does?
Surely there are lots of things which do exist but are not necessarily logical?
Stuff that doesn’t necessarily fit into our nice, neat, predictable, safe, conventional-thinking-box.
What if those who teach… don’t know?
What if those that make the ‘rules’ (about what should and shouldn’t be taught) don’t know?
Or care?
What if our kids are ‘learning’ from the ignorant and un-enlightened?
Not only do they have their creativity beaten out of them by a system which frowns upon creative expression and celebrates ‘academic’ excellence… but now they’re being discouraged from exploring and developing an important part of who they are as people; their spiritual selves.
I’m not suggesting the mandatory teaching of any particular philosophy or theology… but I am suggesting that we don’t beat the natural curiosity out of our kids by imposing spiritual sanctions or completely indoctrinating them with overtly humanistic teaching and thinking
Okay.. so that would be the end of part one.
It’s a good thing I didn’t have a plan!
And all this from a scientist… who’da thunk it?
Hope I haven’t weirded you out, too much.
Let me know your thoughts and where you’re from.
Part two… soon.




{ 17 comments… read them below or add one }
This paragraph sums up why I keep coming back to your site:
“Hey, you know what dad… I’m not sure about your perspective on the whole God, universe, eternity, spirituality thing… In fact, I’ve done some significant research, weighed it all up… and I think your theology is essentially flawed. Take a seat you ignorant old, brain-washed fart and let me enlighten you.”
As usual thank you for a thought provoking view on what loads of people consider to be a ‘prickly’ topic.
Emma, Daylesford.
Craig oh Craig,
I think you just chased away all your readers. (I love people who are willing to jump off mountains without a shute)What most people don’t realise is that the spiritual realm is not a scary place – it is not something out there in oogabooga land but is simply a relationship. Investing time in establishing this relationship can be frighting to some cause by doing so they may actually get to know themselves and that is what frightens people the most. Why? Cause then we may have to acknowledge that we are awesome creations who are designed to achieve and be all that we dream to be and to acknowledge that means we may have to throw away our crutches ……
have an awesome swim –
luv God’s favourite child
Cheryl – Sunny SA ()
I’m luvin’ Oogabooga. You rock, Craig.
In Light & Love,
CanadianChristine
Hey Craig,
I think you hit this one out of the park!!(the only thing is here in Canada I think we play a different game)Funny for all the differences, there is always more similarities.
Nice explanation for the difference between religion and spirituality.
As a kid i was dragged to Church and unfortunately I spent most of my adultlife rebelling against organized religion.
I believe it is all about making a connection. Spirituality helps me feel connected to friends and family who have past.
Awesome Blog Craig.
You rose to the challenge!!
Was the bald guy pleased???
Looking forward to Part 2!!
Dianne from Ontario Canada
I totally agree with this post. Religion causes so many problems in the world, when really we are all people and if you want to believe in something that makes you feel safe and happy then that’s up to you.
Personally, I did question my parents religion. When I was 8 I refused to go to church with them because I did not believe in God. I did my own research and like Buddhism because it talks about spirituality coming from within, not reliant on another ‘being’. I don’t believe all of it, and so I don’t call myself Buddhist, I have no religion, but I am still a spiritual person. My parents just thought I was a ‘hippy’ as I became vegetarian at that age too, but they were supportive!
Hi Emma.
You’re welcome…
Hi Cheryl.
D’ya think?
Hope I didn’t scare them all away.
Maybe it was only a matter of time!
Peace.
( )
Hi Christine.
I rock?
Cool… that’ll do.
( )
Hi Dianne.
The bald guy was mildy happy… but he never goes over the top.
After all, I’m talking about a man who won’t even hug his buddy (me)… so how much emotion can we expect!?
Thanks for saying hi and your nice words..
Here, have a cyberhug ( )
Hi Anonymous.
Your parents sound cool.. and so do you.
Keep searching.
Peace.
Craig, I love reading your blog. Instead of pointing out where we agree (which are numerous) I’ll tell you the differences.
I don’t think “religion” is the cause of the wars and the bloodshed, etc. It is hate, greed, power of the people involved, couched in the manipulation of religion that is the root. While this may seem like a small differentiation, it is not. When we begin to place the blame on an idea (religion) verses the perpetrator (individual), we move further and further away from the concept of personal responsibility.
I don’t think that science and spirituality are exclusive. I think they play very nicely together as long as we are being practical, using common sense, and understanding that extremes are not in our best interest. I am the mother of four beautiful daughters. I understand the science that goes behind the miracle. See, no sand throwing.
Being that I am a mommy, I will slightly disagree with your “dark side” idea. We are in total agreement that the curiosity and independent thought processes of children should be nurtured – we do desire that they becoming independent adults. However, there are real “dark sides” that must be taught against and boundaries that must be in place. Allowing a child to create their own diet of milk and cookies instead of insisting upon a healthy balance is smart child rearing.
Sorry I took up so much of your comment space – but your post was incredibly thoughtful and important – I thought the comment deserved the same.
C~
I real hate that you live on the other side of the planet.
I’d love to sit down for coffee.
And some cheescake.
And dish about this one till the sun came up…it’s one of my FAVORITE topics.
Don’tcha just love the mystery of it all? OOogabooga? ABSOLUTELY! I try and have me a daily dose, sounds like you do too.
Thanks for sharing your “woo-woo” side…HA!
K
Hi April.
You said:
I don’t think “religion” is the cause of the wars”.. I agree with you; I said it was a catalyst. People are the cause.
And you said “I don’t think that science and spirituality are exclusive”.. me either – I am a scientist and a spiritual being.
But sometimes… science is given too much credit and importance in our lives; like any man-made thing.. it’s flawed.. and based on our largely-three-dimensional understanding of the world.
So we actually agree on most things except the milk and cookies diet!. Waddya mean kids can’t survive on that?
Thanks for your considerable thoughts April.. enjoy your day.
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Hi Kam.
Cheesecake?!
Be there in five.
It’s only a short(!) plane trip.. I’ll see you Tuesday for coffee, cake an conversation.
Just not sure which Tuesday.
( )
Keep going! I love it when you stretch out further. Woo woo is only woo woo if all you do is wish upon stars and don’t actually DO anything while you are living in your body. I appreciate that you came out of the spiritual closet. We need more grounded people to talk about stuff like this. I was getting lonely. : )
Laura
P.S. Give John a raise.
Ok this is an old blog but I still wanted to add something.
Religion is essentially and literally an institution.
Spirituality is an essence.
I don’t have a problem with people who like to go to church or those who don’t just don’t try to convince me I have to be like everyone else in the scenario e.g. either why I need to believe the same thing. It doesn’t mean I am wrong or right. It also doesn’t make anyone else wrong or right , so respect that difference and life will be nicer for everybody.
If that doesn’t make sense I agree with you Craig , that is exactly how I feel.
Cheers Janine
Craig, great article. Glad to see you stretch in a different direction. It does a body good to come out of their comfort zone every so often. My blog is called Spiritual Journey Of A Lightworker. I don’t think a visit to my blog would blow your mind too much. From what you shared in this article, it sounds like our beliefs are similar, at least in some areas. I am not religious. I am a spiritual being. I believe a little bit from most religions. I use the 12-step philosophy of “take what you like and leave the rest.”
For many years I was angry at God. I believed in Him. I just didn’t believe that He loved me. My journey has brought me a long way since then. Wow!!! That was only 10 years ago. If someone asks me, I tell them that I am a Christian. That is so that they will feel comfortable. The reality is that I am so much more. I believe in Jesus, Krishna, Buddha, Mother Mary, and so many more. I like the American Indian beliefs and the India Hindu beliefs. You asked where I am from? Hot Springs, Arkansas, U. S. A.—the deep South where life and speech is slow. It gets too hot and too humid to move fast. Have a glorious day.