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	<title>Comments on: The Work-Life Balance Myth</title>
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		<title>By: missjojo</title>
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		<dc:creator>missjojo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 09:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,&lt;br/&gt;I agree with what you say.  I think the work life balance thing came from the corporate world - where I don&#039;t know anyone who truly loves it. We&#039;re all just in it for money, or power, or convenience, or &quot;success&quot; - whatever that is.&lt;br/&gt;I truly agree that when you are doing something you love, you no longer count the hours, and 50 or 60 + hours of fulfilling work or varied work can be extremely satisfying without wearing you down.&lt;br/&gt;For me, I currently work to pay the mortgage. It&#039;s a short term plan. I don&#039;t love my job, but I can do it ok and get enough satisfaction out of it to turn up every day.  There is always more to be done than I can do. My boss works 60+ hours a week and is a heart attack waiting to happen. He also looks about 10 years older than me even though he is younger!  He needs some work life balance - a life would be good.  If I let myself, I could work the same way.  I would get nothing extra for it - no additional satisfaction, praise, or even money.  So I choose to draw a line, prioritise, and balance my life to make time for the extra things that are important to me like hobbies, family, exercise and cooking. That&#039;s a work life balance.  It just doesn&#039;t have a magic number attached to it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You have one too - already.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;love,&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Miss Jojo xxx&lt;br/&gt;  I</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />I agree with what you say.  I think the work life balance thing came from the corporate world &#8211; where I don&#8217;t know anyone who truly loves it. We&#8217;re all just in it for money, or power, or convenience, or &#8220;success&#8221; &#8211; whatever that is.<br />I truly agree that when you are doing something you love, you no longer count the hours, and 50 or 60 + hours of fulfilling work or varied work can be extremely satisfying without wearing you down.<br />For me, I currently work to pay the mortgage. It&#8217;s a short term plan. I don&#8217;t love my job, but I can do it ok and get enough satisfaction out of it to turn up every day.  There is always more to be done than I can do. My boss works 60+ hours a week and is a heart attack waiting to happen. He also looks about 10 years older than me even though he is younger!  He needs some work life balance &#8211; a life would be good.  If I let myself, I could work the same way.  I would get nothing extra for it &#8211; no additional satisfaction, praise, or even money.  So I choose to draw a line, prioritise, and balance my life to make time for the extra things that are important to me like hobbies, family, exercise and cooking. That&#8217;s a work life balance.  It just doesn&#8217;t have a magic number attached to it.</p>
<p>You have one too &#8211; already.</p>
<p>love,</p>
<p>Miss Jojo xxx<br />  I</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 05:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Go K!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;( )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Go K!</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 05:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing Kel...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing Kel&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 05:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you Leanne... ( )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you Leanne&#8230; ( )</p>
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		<title>By: K</title>
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		<dc:creator>K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 04:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Craig,&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;How special is it to effortlessly rise out of bed and begin your day?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;8 years ago I never thought it was possible. From then to now however, it has been truly  a feeling of freshness....not sure of the right word....just the &#039;bestist&#039; feeling ever.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&#039;m in love with what I do every day in this supposed &#039;job&#039; I&#039;ve created for myself.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It has been difficult to not listen to those who say &quot;You&#039;re too busy&quot;.....&quot;Too much work makes K a dull girl&quot;etc. When I don&#039;t feel dull at all! Quite the contrary. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;After watching Australian Story last night on the box, and reading your honest words.... I&#039;m beginning to understand that if I am to help myself to be satisfied with me for all my days there is a need to surround oneself with fabulous people &amp; wash off those damaging comments &#039;friends&#039; seem to make. It&#039;s tricky though - tuning off those you are &#039;meant&#039; to love. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Hmmmmm life hey - what a journey!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;K</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Craig,</p>
<p>How special is it to effortlessly rise out of bed and begin your day?</p>
<p>8 years ago I never thought it was possible. From then to now however, it has been truly  a feeling of freshness&#8230;.not sure of the right word&#8230;.just the &#39;bestist&#39; feeling ever.</p>
<p>I&#39;m in love with what I do every day in this supposed &#39;job&#39; I&#39;ve created for myself.</p>
<p>It has been difficult to not listen to those who say &quot;You&#39;re too busy&quot;&#8230;..&quot;Too much work makes K a dull girl&quot;etc. When I don&#39;t feel dull at all! Quite the contrary. </p>
<p>After watching Australian Story last night on the box, and reading your honest words&#8230;. I&#39;m beginning to understand that if I am to help myself to be satisfied with me for all my days there is a need to surround oneself with fabulous people &amp; wash off those damaging comments &#39;friends&#39; seem to make. It&#39;s tricky though &#8211; tuning off those you are &#39;meant&#39; to love. </p>
<p>Hmmmmm life hey &#8211; what a journey!</p>
<p>K</p>
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		<title>By: Kelvin Kao</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelvin Kao</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 04:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The way I look at it... again, statistics are just statistics.  What they are doing is assessing a bunch of people at the same time.  This kind of research has more uses for the office or factory as a whole than the individuals.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Do most people get fat when they are on a cheesecake-only diet?  Yes.  But there are always one of those freaks (the right word?) that can eat cheesecake for every meal and don&#039;t get fat.  But are doctors still going to recommend not eating cheesecake for every meal?  Certainly, because they are more likely right than wrong in making the recommendation.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;So basically what the research tells us, if anything, is that most people are more productive working a certain number of hours and resting for the other hours.  So assuming that everybody in the office is on that schedule, then the productivity is best.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Now what does that mean for you and me?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Absolutely nothing!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The kind of research result is only going to tell you that it&#039;s most likely to have a productive workplace assuming that everybody is the same... but we are not.  It&#039;s probably ideal if you can find out what&#039;s the optimal number of hours each person work based on their own particular situations, but a research that says &quot;find out what&#039;s good for each person&quot; doesn&#039;t seem very conclusive, so they all tend to generalize.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;So these results are probably only meaningful to management or whoever that needs to figure out how many hours one should work.  It&#039;s like figuring out what portion size of a meal to give to everyone.  They are trying to make the collective best result, instead of asking individuals who&#039;s hungry and who&#039;s too full.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;That&#039;s probably not the main point of this post, huh? =P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way I look at it&#8230; again, statistics are just statistics.  What they are doing is assessing a bunch of people at the same time.  This kind of research has more uses for the office or factory as a whole than the individuals.</p>
<p>Do most people get fat when they are on a cheesecake-only diet?  Yes.  But there are always one of those freaks (the right word?) that can eat cheesecake for every meal and don&#8217;t get fat.  But are doctors still going to recommend not eating cheesecake for every meal?  Certainly, because they are more likely right than wrong in making the recommendation.</p>
<p>So basically what the research tells us, if anything, is that most people are more productive working a certain number of hours and resting for the other hours.  So assuming that everybody in the office is on that schedule, then the productivity is best.</p>
<p>Now what does that mean for you and me?</p>
<p>Absolutely nothing!</p>
<p>The kind of research result is only going to tell you that it&#8217;s most likely to have a productive workplace assuming that everybody is the same&#8230; but we are not.  It&#8217;s probably ideal if you can find out what&#8217;s the optimal number of hours each person work based on their own particular situations, but a research that says &#8220;find out what&#8217;s good for each person&#8221; doesn&#8217;t seem very conclusive, so they all tend to generalize.</p>
<p>So these results are probably only meaningful to management or whoever that needs to figure out how many hours one should work.  It&#8217;s like figuring out what portion size of a meal to give to everyone.  They are trying to make the collective best result, instead of asking individuals who&#8217;s hungry and who&#8217;s too full.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s probably not the main point of this post, huh? =P</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 04:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Craig&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I love this post, it&#039;s sooo true!!&lt;br/&gt;I work casual hours and am very unhappy in my position.  It doesn&#039;t give me any enjoyment or fulfillment.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The good news is i am doing something positive about it and trying to find something i&#039;m passionate about! Reading your posts gives me the encouragement to not give up and keep searching for my dreams!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Thank you Craig&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Leanne (Melbourne)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Craig</p>
<p>I love this post, it&#8217;s sooo true!!<br />I work casual hours and am very unhappy in my position.  It doesn&#8217;t give me any enjoyment or fulfillment.</p>
<p>The good news is i am doing something positive about it and trying to find something i&#8217;m passionate about! Reading your posts gives me the encouragement to not give up and keep searching for my dreams!</p>
<p>Thank you Craig</p>
<p>Leanne (Melbourne)</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re welcome Monica.. ( )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re welcome Monica.. ( )</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 01:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Loved it, loved it - didn&#039;t actually need to read past your intro (before your post) to hear what I needed to hear today - that alone was relevant for me. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Could&#039;ve stopped right there. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Of course I read on - great topic, great thoughts, so true - thanks for spreading the passion.....&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;Monica</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loved it, loved it &#8211; didn&#8217;t actually need to read past your intro (before your post) to hear what I needed to hear today &#8211; that alone was relevant for me. </p>
<p>Could&#8217;ve stopped right there. </p>
<p>Of course I read on &#8211; great topic, great thoughts, so true &#8211; thanks for spreading the passion&#8230;..</p>
<p>Monica</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wouldn&#039;t want rumours would we Steph... ;)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;( )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wouldn&#8217;t want rumours would we Steph&#8230; <img src='http://www.craigharper.com.au/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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