The Blogger and the Surfer.

If there’s anyone who can’t afford to take a day off at the moment, it’s me.
So for that very reason, I’ve decided to take one.

Sometimes the least convenient course of action is the right one.
It’s impractical, but necessary.
Sometimes Mister turn-yer-life-around needs to give himself a good talking to.
Sometimes Mister ‘Balanced’ … isn’t.
Today I’ve headed down the coast to spend some quality time with… me.

Right now I’m sitting in the sand, two minutes from my beach house watching a lone surfer carving up the waves; the best playground in the world.
It’s almost hypnotic.
Imagine having miles and miles of surf to yourself.
Sweet.
I find the sea kinda therapeutic and healing.
If I didn’t have the motor skills of a new-born foal, I’d be out there with him.
Or not.
I don’t think he’s gonna die from any stress-related illness any time soon.
He’s on his board and I’m on my laptop.
I obviously still have a way to go.
Baby steps for me.

At least I’m out of the office.
No phone.
No appointments.
No knocks on my office door.
No hurry.
Feet buried in the sand, winter sun on my back.
No wind and no clouds.
It’s cool but it’s slowly warming up and me and surfer dude are the only people for miles.
My biggest worry right now is keeping the sand out of my keyboard.
Such pressure.
I’m up to the challenge.

The thing I love about getting away from the busy-ness of my life is that it gives me instant perspective. I find it impossible to be (completely) objective about something when I’m in the middle of it… sometimes space (either physical or emotional) is exactly what we need to gain clarity and certainty about particular situations, circumstances and challenges.

And relationships.

When was the last time you got away from everyone and everything?
When was the last time you were alone for an extended period of time… no interruptions, no distractions, no noise, no stress… just genuine time for you to listen to you?
Patiently.
Sometimes the busier we are.. the less we accomplish.
The more miserable we are.
We talk about what we might do, be and create… but we seem to be getting further away from our dreams, while simultaneously working like dogs.

I think I might do this again next Thursday.
Without my laptop.

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Janine July 12, 2007 at 3:23 pm

Craig, Craig, Craig,

You get the chance to take the day and did you seize it ….

Love you as we all do …leave the computer behind next time and then when we see you next you won’t be muttering under your breath at builders and trainers…..just don’t always do it on a Thursday or I won’t be able to say hello.
Having said that you’ve got five where I wouldn’t be able to anyway.

Enjoy the sea breeze!
Cheers Janine

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Craig Harper July 12, 2007 at 6:53 pm

Hey Janine.

I know; I’m still a work in progress…Johnnie made me a blogoholic.
It’s his fault.
Couldn’t be me.

Thanks for the love..

( )

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Claire July 12, 2007 at 8:22 pm

Spot on Craig. “Sometimes the busier we are.. the less we accomplish”.
Blogging on your day off. Hmmm.
Sounds like you still have a little way to go. Congratulations on taking some time for yourself. With your lifestyle you certainly should make it a habit.
Claire

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Kammie July 13, 2007 at 1:22 am

C~

A friend recently shared the quote, “You gotta live it to give it”…ain’t that the TRUTH?

Us uber-motivational-inspirational-over-achiever types need to re-charge, re-fuel and re-energize in order to up our own game.

I say next week you ask surfer dude to give you a lesson and dive on into that great big beautiful ocean!

Much love,
KK

ps…I’m digging into Fattitude right now! Thx for sharing your wisdom:)

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James Soh July 13, 2007 at 2:11 am

Periodic recharging is important. Taking a break is not about dodging responsibility, it’s about taking a rest so you can travel further.

Craig, take a break next Thursday … without your laptop, please :)

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Craig Harper July 13, 2007 at 8:03 am

Hi Claire.

Yes I’m a work in progress.
Baby steps for me.

Cheers.

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Craig Harper July 13, 2007 at 8:08 am

Hi Kam.

Hmm, me and Surfer Dude at one with the waves (or is that… at two?).
And then I could teach him to blog!
Waddya mean.. no?

Hope you enjoy the book Kam.

Peace ( )

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Craig Harper July 13, 2007 at 9:03 am

Hi James.

Okay, it’s settled; next Thursday.. me, sand, waves… no laptop!

Thanks for the gentle nudge James.
Have a great day.

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Doug in New Mexico July 13, 2007 at 12:04 pm

OK, fess up dude! What did you do after you hit “send?” Somehow, I don’t fancy you the martyr type. Glad you got away, tho!

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Craig Harper July 13, 2007 at 5:07 pm

Hey Doug.

I dropped the laptop at home and walked on the beach for two hours.

Nice…

Oh yeh, just remembereed your questions! Sorry Bud… on the way.

Cheers.

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Joshua July 13, 2007 at 5:20 pm

You’re living my dream job…sorta!

All I’ve been dreaming about lately is being able to mobile. The value of sitting outside on a beach is so huge, even having to work on your laptop!

Good stuff man. I hope you get out next Thursday!

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Craig Harper July 15, 2007 at 10:30 am

Hey Joshua.

Next Thursday I’m gettin’ wet!

Peace.

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