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		<title>By: littlejohn</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 23:31:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this comment Wolfhound posted on Jessica Watson&#039;s blog says it all re attitude, so here it is.......

Wolfhound said...

    Hi Jessica,

    Sounds like you managed to have a lot of fun and celebrate a bunch. That&#039;s fantastic. As you say there&#039;s a bunch of hard work to come, but the progress you&#039;re making will bolster your confidence to tackle the hard stuff.

    One great thing about your journey is that is exposes how sad the world has become. In previous generations - 50, 100 or more years ago - I believe that most people would have encouraged you in your dream. Today, there are so many naysayers, who say that it&#039;s too hard, too dangerous, you&#039;re too young, you&#039;re only a girl, etc.

    Many of these observers would claim that they&#039;re being &#039;responsible&#039;, &#039;cautious&#039;, &#039;realistic&#039;, &#039;only looking out for you&#039;, etc., whereas the truth is that we&#039;ve become a generation of control freaks, forgetting that the purpose of live is to *live*. It&#039;s not the destination that matters, it&#039;s the journey. And it&#039;s individual enterprise, exploration and adventure that is such a large part of what makes life worth living.

    So I&#039;m thrilled with your success, not just for your own sake, of course, and your team&#039;s, but also because it can serve as a message to all the small-minded people in the world. I hope that, for them, your story will make the resounding statement that life is about pursuing your dreams and meeting challenges.

    It doesn&#039;t matter whether a person fails gloriously in meeting a challenge, because the wonderful thing is that they tried. How sad would life be if we all lived in a world where no-one had any dreams, no-one was willing to take a risk, and where no-one did anything without the approval of legislators, regulators, supervisors, pundits, journalists and commentators ?

    So thank you, Jessica, for following your dream. I hope for your ultimate success, and that it brings you the satisfaction that I believe it will. I also hope that it serves to inspire other people - especially girls - to drive relentlessly ahead in pursuit of their hopes and dreams, and to say, as we do in Ireland, &quot;damn the begrudgers&quot;.

    All the best,

    Brian in NY.

Thanks Wolfhound! And to add a bit more, Ralf Waldo has a thing to say...

&quot;We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.&quot;
Ralph Waldo Emerson 

Good attitude Dude!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this comment Wolfhound posted on Jessica Watson&#8217;s blog says it all re attitude, so here it is&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>Wolfhound said&#8230;</p>
<p>    Hi Jessica,</p>
<p>    Sounds like you managed to have a lot of fun and celebrate a bunch. That&#8217;s fantastic. As you say there&#8217;s a bunch of hard work to come, but the progress you&#8217;re making will bolster your confidence to tackle the hard stuff.</p>
<p>    One great thing about your journey is that is exposes how sad the world has become. In previous generations &#8211; 50, 100 or more years ago &#8211; I believe that most people would have encouraged you in your dream. Today, there are so many naysayers, who say that it&#8217;s too hard, too dangerous, you&#8217;re too young, you&#8217;re only a girl, etc.</p>
<p>    Many of these observers would claim that they&#8217;re being &#8216;responsible&#8217;, &#8216;cautious&#8217;, &#8216;realistic&#8217;, &#8216;only looking out for you&#8217;, etc., whereas the truth is that we&#8217;ve become a generation of control freaks, forgetting that the purpose of live is to *live*. It&#8217;s not the destination that matters, it&#8217;s the journey. And it&#8217;s individual enterprise, exploration and adventure that is such a large part of what makes life worth living.</p>
<p>    So I&#8217;m thrilled with your success, not just for your own sake, of course, and your team&#8217;s, but also because it can serve as a message to all the small-minded people in the world. I hope that, for them, your story will make the resounding statement that life is about pursuing your dreams and meeting challenges.</p>
<p>    It doesn&#8217;t matter whether a person fails gloriously in meeting a challenge, because the wonderful thing is that they tried. How sad would life be if we all lived in a world where no-one had any dreams, no-one was willing to take a risk, and where no-one did anything without the approval of legislators, regulators, supervisors, pundits, journalists and commentators ?</p>
<p>    So thank you, Jessica, for following your dream. I hope for your ultimate success, and that it brings you the satisfaction that I believe it will. I also hope that it serves to inspire other people &#8211; especially girls &#8211; to drive relentlessly ahead in pursuit of their hopes and dreams, and to say, as we do in Ireland, &#8220;damn the begrudgers&#8221;.</p>
<p>    All the best,</p>
<p>    Brian in NY.</p>
<p>Thanks Wolfhound! And to add a bit more, Ralf Waldo has a thing to say&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.&#8221;<br />
Ralph Waldo Emerson </p>
<p>Good attitude Dude!</p>
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		<title>By: Tina</title>
		<link>http://www.craigharper.com.au/happiness/choose-your-attitude/#comment-17486</link>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 11:21:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Craig !
I&#039;ve only just got around to reading this one... had a very busy weekend. Spent several hours last night and the whole day today helping my eldest son and his family to salvage as much as possible of their belongings after their celing caved in. They&#039;re extending up, putting on a second storey, and had got to the stage where they had to remove the roof tiles for the framing to go up. On Thursday it was so hot that their feet were burning through their shoes while they were on the roof. But they didn&#039;t get a chance to tarp it all up before the storm hit last night... while we were all out at a family party. They got home to find the house flooded and a heck of a lot of stuff ruined. 

Why am I telling you all this ? Because my son... who seems to get kicked in the guts every time he starts to get ahead... is saying &quot;oh well, this is going to make things easier for getting the framework up top, and we&#039;re probably better off replacing all the plasterboard anyway, rather than trying to patch it like we were going to do... &quot;
Always finds something good in every situation..... even though they have no dry clothes and half their furniture, appliances, books, toys and bedding are wrecked.

{{HUG}} Tina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Craig !<br />
I&#8217;ve only just got around to reading this one&#8230; had a very busy weekend. Spent several hours last night and the whole day today helping my eldest son and his family to salvage as much as possible of their belongings after their celing caved in. They&#8217;re extending up, putting on a second storey, and had got to the stage where they had to remove the roof tiles for the framing to go up. On Thursday it was so hot that their feet were burning through their shoes while they were on the roof. But they didn&#8217;t get a chance to tarp it all up before the storm hit last night&#8230; while we were all out at a family party. They got home to find the house flooded and a heck of a lot of stuff ruined. </p>
<p>Why am I telling you all this ? Because my son&#8230; who seems to get kicked in the guts every time he starts to get ahead&#8230; is saying &#8220;oh well, this is going to make things easier for getting the framework up top, and we&#8217;re probably better off replacing all the plasterboard anyway, rather than trying to patch it like we were going to do&#8230; &#8221;<br />
Always finds something good in every situation&#8230;.. even though they have no dry clothes and half their furniture, appliances, books, toys and bedding are wrecked.</p>
<p>{{HUG}} Tina</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is 7.10 and i&#039;m sick as and can&#039;t contact you sorry could not make it, next time all,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is 7.10 and i&#8217;m sick as and can&#8217;t contact you sorry could not make it, next time all,</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Anne from Moe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Anne from Moe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 04:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey all!
Wishing you a productive weekend in the state of sunshine - what a great place to start some positive thinking!
Enjoy, stay safe, but most of all have a blast!
cheers M x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey all!<br />
Wishing you a productive weekend in the state of sunshine &#8211; what a great place to start some positive thinking!<br />
Enjoy, stay safe, but most of all have a blast!<br />
cheers M x</p>
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		<title>By: Jaki</title>
		<link>http://www.craigharper.com.au/happiness/choose-your-attitude/#comment-17475</link>
		<dc:creator>Jaki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:49:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excited already about the Workshop on Sunday - Only 2 more sleeps to go... Now to leave work early, pack the car, the kids ,the dog, the fish and head off on the 3 hour road trip just to catch the plane to Brisbane... Arriving mid afternoon Saturday.. just in time for a walk along the beautiful Southbank and to get gorgeous before heading to my favourite Curry Place in the World.. its in West End... anyone want to join me?
See ya Sunday.....
Jak</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excited already about the Workshop on Sunday &#8211; Only 2 more sleeps to go&#8230; Now to leave work early, pack the car, the kids ,the dog, the fish and head off on the 3 hour road trip just to catch the plane to Brisbane&#8230; Arriving mid afternoon Saturday.. just in time for a walk along the beautiful Southbank and to get gorgeous before heading to my favourite Curry Place in the World.. its in West End&#8230; anyone want to join me?<br />
See ya Sunday&#8230;..<br />
Jak</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://www.craigharper.com.au/happiness/choose-your-attitude/#comment-17474</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes I totally agree with you Sandra re all you have been through, but one thing I get told is just &#039;get over it&#039;.

Lisa just getting over a bout of gastro.

Will be ok for Saturday night.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I totally agree with you Sandra re all you have been through, but one thing I get told is just &#8216;get over it&#8217;.</p>
<p>Lisa just getting over a bout of gastro.</p>
<p>Will be ok for Saturday night.</p>
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		<title>By: Jo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:13:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am new to your website and so very much appreciate receiving these words of wisdom, words that I needed to hear and more importantly need to implement.  I will print them off and re-visit this article whenever I need the inspiration to take back control of my world and my reactions Thanks Craig.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am new to your website and so very much appreciate receiving these words of wisdom, words that I needed to hear and more importantly need to implement.  I will print them off and re-visit this article whenever I need the inspiration to take back control of my world and my reactions Thanks Craig.</p>
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		<title>By: Dianne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me this falls under the realm of opposites - good, bad, happy, sad, chaos, calm etc. Like opposite sides of the coin, you can&#039;t have one without the other - that&#039;s just how it is. And we live our lives diving from one side to the other. What is needed, however, is to find that place in between where you don&#039;t &#039;react&#039;, a place of indifference, or as Rick said, equanimity. Whilst hard to do all the time, I find when I am in this place of indifference, life goes on around me without reacting (or over-reacting) and the outcome of my day is very different. This is a very similar feeling to that place I find in meditation where I just am.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me this falls under the realm of opposites &#8211; good, bad, happy, sad, chaos, calm etc. Like opposite sides of the coin, you can&#8217;t have one without the other &#8211; that&#8217;s just how it is. And we live our lives diving from one side to the other. What is needed, however, is to find that place in between where you don&#8217;t &#8216;react&#8217;, a place of indifference, or as Rick said, equanimity. Whilst hard to do all the time, I find when I am in this place of indifference, life goes on around me without reacting (or over-reacting) and the outcome of my day is very different. This is a very similar feeling to that place I find in meditation where I just am.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
		<link>http://www.craigharper.com.au/happiness/choose-your-attitude/#comment-17471</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whooooooooooo !  Attitude.... Awesome.. 

thank god for that... I am so grateful to have the freedom to live exactly how I please knowing I cannot change anyone else.. or anything else and even money doesnt limit me as this universe just keeps on giving!

To be this HIGH (might change as I now become a Yoga Instructor  - nah just more intense) every single day is an absolute gift and one I wouldnt trade for anything not even all the money in the world... i feel like I am living a rock concert.

And you know what .. many at work say YOU cant actually always be that happy .. SO glad I dont suffer from jealousy that I cant control what a waste for them... as I am this happy and my gym class is just so happy i have officially lost the plot.. Am getting an RRM tattoo on my back ... may as well mark it!  

We get this ONCE guys SO take a good look in the mirror what do you have, what is left, what can YOU give.. turn UP THAT MUSIC and GO!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whooooooooooo !  Attitude&#8230;. Awesome.. </p>
<p>thank god for that&#8230; I am so grateful to have the freedom to live exactly how I please knowing I cannot change anyone else.. or anything else and even money doesnt limit me as this universe just keeps on giving!</p>
<p>To be this HIGH (might change as I now become a Yoga Instructor  &#8211; nah just more intense) every single day is an absolute gift and one I wouldnt trade for anything not even all the money in the world&#8230; i feel like I am living a rock concert.</p>
<p>And you know what .. many at work say YOU cant actually always be that happy .. SO glad I dont suffer from jealousy that I cant control what a waste for them&#8230; as I am this happy and my gym class is just so happy i have officially lost the plot.. Am getting an RRM tattoo on my back &#8230; may as well mark it!  </p>
<p>We get this ONCE guys SO take a good look in the mirror what do you have, what is left, what can YOU give.. turn UP THAT MUSIC and GO!</p>
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		<title>By: lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:48:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very well done Craig.            
It&#039;s ALL attitude, right? 
Whatever the &quot;weather,&quot;  we can all bring our own sunshine  ;)

Michael, Are you ok?
Happy weekend everyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well done Craig.<br />
It&#8217;s ALL attitude, right?<br />
Whatever the &#8220;weather,&#8221;  we can all bring our own sunshine  <img src='http://www.craigharper.com.au/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Michael, Are you ok?<br />
Happy weekend everyone.</p>
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