The Exercise Bloke is Back
For today’s instalment here at me-dot-com I will be wearing my special exercise science hat, my fave coaching whistle and some strategically placed Dencorub. And possibly my electric-blue crushed velour tracksuit. If you so choose, today you can be my student, athlete or client. Or all three. For this post I have left my philosopher’s cardigan in the third draw, my motivator’s suit hanging in the wardrobe and my Ugg boots next to the corduroy bean bag in the loft. Yep, today will be all about the physical; no Freud, no Tolle, no Socrates and no Dr. Phil. Just a little Harper.
Oh alright, a big Harper.
That Point
Has your body arrived at that point yet? If it has, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. If it hasn’t, stay tuned; it’s coming. That point is the time when, for no (apparent) reason, your body seems to ‘age’ at an alarming rate and you start gaining weight like a teenage Sumo wrestler at fat camp. Things start to hurt, bits fall off and easy stuff gets hard. Real hard. All by itself with no prompting from you. So not fair. Up to a point in time, it seems as though you can (almost) eat what you like, exercise when and if you want, party hard, drink hard, inflict all kinds of punishment on your undeserving body and still, it remains in pretty good shape. Then one day all that changes. All of a sudden fat begins to appear in weird and not-so-wonderful places. Muscle melts away like ice cubes on a hot day. Fitness, strength and flexibility decrease by the week. Walking up a few stairs sees you breathing like a chain-smoking octogenarian with emphysema, and your previously indestructible lean and youthful body turns into a donut with veins and a (faint) heartbeat.
Unless of course, you choose to manage your body better than the majority.
Thirty Five to Forty Five; the Danger Zone
Since I began doing what I do in 1982, I have worked with tens of thousands of bodies and while I’ve learned many lessons along the way, one of my early observations was that some people seem to be able to mistreat their body and mismanage their genetics with very little in the way of negative physical consequences. I say “seem to be able to” because not long after I arrived at that initial conclusion, I discovered that there always comes a point in time when things change; even for those who seem to be genetically gifted throughout their teens, twenties and possibly, thirties. When I was doing my apprenticeship (as I call it) in the fitness industry, I was always astounded at how some people could do all the wrong things to their body, yet still stay in good shape, function pretty well and seemingly have no ill-effects from their less-than-desirable behaviours and habits. But that conclusion was simply an indication of my immaturity and my lack of time in the field.
Physiological Changes
The U-turn often happens at around forty. Not always, but often. Might be thirty six or seven, could be forty four or five; it’s different for everyone. For me, it was about thirty eight. Even though I was looking after my body, I still noticed subtle changes and needed to adjust my thinking and behaviour accordingly. My biggest challenge was (and still is) staying lean. It’s like overnight my metabolism slowed down by twenty five percent. All by itself. Lucky me. While my strength and fitness stayed about the same, I did notice a change in my metabolic rate and consequently how much food I needed. Oh well, look on the bright side; my food bill is now smaller and when I get lost in the wilderness, I’ll outlive all those annoyingly lean ectomorphs and mesomorphs with their uber-fast metabolisms!
Of course our bodies know exactly what we need; it’s our responsibility to simply pay attention and respond accordingly. Some people spend a lifetime not listening to their body and then wonder how they’ve ended up in such poor condition. If your body is sore, it’s telling you something. If it’s getting fat(ter), it’s telling you something. If it’s becoming progressively more tired, it’s telling you something. The key is to listen and adapt; not to simply keep doing what (clearly) doesn’t work; like sitting on your arse, eating crap and waiting for the right time to get in shape.
Sedentary Folk
For the next moment I want to talk about those people who are not exercising consistently and appropriately, who are not eating optimally and who are not embracing a healthy lifestyle. Somewhere around the forty-year mark (for typical sedentary people), we often begin to see the physiological changes accelerate (sometimes at a rapid rate); body-fat increases, metabolism slows, aerobic fitness decreases, bone density decreases, immune system becomes weaker, lean tissue (muscle) decreases, strength and power decrease, flexibility decreases, recovery time (from illness and injury) increases, posture suffers and energy levels drop (often drastically). The fact that these people are inactive and are making poor food and lifestyle choices means that they are much more likely to experience considerable physiological deterioration, while their counterparts with similar genetics, of the same age, who have embraced a healthier and more active lifestyle, will experience little or no physical decline over the same period of time.
Winding Back the Clock
While we can see subtle changes in people who exercise, more often than not we can slow, if not stop, the physical decline by implementing the right dietary, exercise and lifestyle strategy. And the good news for people who have let themselves go (for want of a better term) is that we (they) can actually start to reverse some of the physical damage and wind back the biological clock. Fortunately for you and I, bodies are very adaptable and resilient; which is why I have seen some people lower their biological age by as much as thirty years.
The Mid-Life Hump
You’ve heard of the mid-week hump, well today we’re talking about the mid-life hump. That is, the “Wednesday” of our lifespan. While there’s no set age when the physiological decline begins in earnest, it is my firm belief that everybody over the age of thirty five should be following some kind of structured exercise program – unless they are a person who lives a very active lifestyle or has a job which is very demanding physically. So if you happen to walk five miles to work each morning, cut down trees all day and exist on a diet of fresh foods, you can stop reading now.
If that’s not you and it is your desire to remain fit, lean and functional into your sixties and beyond, you best slide by me-dot-com tomorrow for part two of this lesson.
Great News
The great news is that for those of us who make smart decisions, listen to our bodies and embrace healthy behaviours, the mid-life hump will prove to be little more than a minor inconvenience, if not, a total non-event. I recently had my body-fat measured and my biological age tested. My body-fat percentage came out at fourteen percent – very low for an ex-fat kid and a bloke with the metabolism of a statue – and my biological age was estimated at twenty eight years; seventeen years younger than my chronological age. Now these results are not because I am in any way genetically gifted (at all!) but rather because I have learned how to maximise what I’ve been given. I want you to do the same. What you look, feel and function like in your thirties, forties and beyond has a little to do with genetic disposition – what you’ve been given - and a lot to do with genetic management; what you do with what you’ve been given.
Tomorrow I’ll be back to give you my top ten exercise, dietary, attitude and lifestyle tips for managing, or perhaps avoiding, your mid-life hump.
Ciao xx
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Craig go away
as Jack said in a Few good Men ‘you can’t handle the truth’, it’s all too much where is that pizza
Sad to say, but this is true Craig. Thankfully I made the connection a while ago and the odd changes in my body are relatively small so I can disguise them (like the bit of pudge on my stomach that I never used to see).
It’s interesting to see the reaction of people when I tell them my workout routine. They just assume that I’m “lucky” to be “skinny”. Heck no – at 41 and a mom, I have to really push my body in the gym to maintain this. Anyone who sees me bent over the rowing machine after a session, gasping and shaking, thinks I’m crazy. But if I didn’t do this, I would be trucking around a lot more weight (I love to eat) and a lot less energy.
oh my goodness.This explains a hell of a lot! I was one of those ‘gifted’ people who could eat anything and do very little and had a very good physique (yes I was nauseating) So I had a horrible shock when hitting my late 30′s when it all changed.I didn’t so much gain weight but went ‘squidgy’ all over.It was like being covered in blancmange!I still disguise it well in public but cannot hide from it. I’m essentially a pudding when undressed.I honestly(and rather naively thought) “ahh, I must have some hormonal disorder” as I haven’t gained weight just a layer of blancmange.i’ll need to seek some medical advice.It’s a bit of a relief (with a smackerel of shame thrown in) to hear that this is quite normal as you describe exactly what I have experienced.I thought that what was normal in my youth would last.Darn it all.Thanks for switching on the lightbulb ,yes I’m clearly a bit dim.
cheers
Pudding girl
Cdn why do you have to justifiy your going to gym to people who might crush ambition?
Hi Craig,
I do look forward to the Sunday posts – they always contain much food for thought.
All right, well, I’ve given this whole aging thing of yours due consideration but it sounds a little tedious, disappointing and, well, downright unattractive really so I’ve decided that the whole thing is best avoided. Thanks very much anyway but I think I’ll pass.
I plan to have a Renaissance instead. I’ve never actually pushed myself physically before so it’s been quite delightful lately to discover that I can now do grown-up push ups and actually run on the treadmill without becoming so oxygen deprived that I think I see Jesus on the crosstrainer.
I will be so fit and fast at 39 that my 40th birthday won’t be able to catch me. Well, that’s my cunning plan anyway.
Have a fabulous Monday everyone.
Christina xxx
Hi Craig,
I have just had my 37th birthday, I am still getting out on my bike, on and off road, sometimes at 5.00am when I have fantastic will power, going out this time of the day makes it possible for me to try to keep fit as well as hold down a busy job etc. I have also been making really good progress with cutting down on beer and wine and all that good stuff. It’s a bit dull at times, but it is all paying off.
I look forward to your next post, thanks for the work you do.
Craig,
I had been wondering why I was knackered all the time. I began to decline pretty much just after my 40th. I have never used the excuse that “Its just my age” to excuse my sedentary lifestyle but I genuinely believed I wouldn’t see any decline until at least 98, such was my arrogance.
I now find myself at 42 and suffering lowered energy, bad diet, lack of excersise, lack of motivation, smoking…and I have absolutely no one else to blame but myself.
But I don’t just need to change that and turn it around, I WANT to.
Have you any advice for a chubby 40 plus on how to retrieve his fitness without putting himself in cardiac arrest?
Thanks for a brilliant article.
Pete
Hi Michael – actually I don’t see it as justification. I look at it more as an informational thing. So many people think that staying lean is all genetics or a magic diet. So I like to share what I do because it isn’t a magic bullet – it’s just plain old hard work. And vigilance…
About people who think I’m crazy in the gym – oh I like it that way
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ouch, I was taking time out cos I needed the rest – oops that might have been a year ago. Really, has the time gone THAT fast!!
Thanks for the hurry up.
Debbie
Oh God this a scary truth! I am 33 and after 2 kids thought it was bad enough…guess there is still more to follow…arghhh!
My goodness scary, scary I just came downstairs to cancel my training session as I have done no no exercise all week and have eaten crap. I thought I would look at my emails and this is what I am hit with. The worse part is its all true I have recently turned 36 and its been a downhill slide, life gets in the way of exercise and I really thought I would never say that, but its happened. I have gone from a person who exercised 6 days a week to zilcho and my reason is I have started a new job and I am under pressure and feel like I am out of my depth, I am studying and playing mum and basically too tired to do anything else. In the last two months my body has turned into one blubbery jelly bath. Mmm maybe I won’t cancel my session, looking forward to part two to see what I can do. Have a great day Craig and everyone else
Hi Craig, Great post…..I so enjoyed hearing the truth. I am working on the body of the 45yr old mother of four…its paying off…Thanks for the motivation…Peta
Yes it is strange how quickly the body goes down hill after 40. This getting old business sucks bigtime.
Have to tell you Craig, we went to the Ricketts Point teahouse yesterday and the meals were lovely but ENORMOUS. (we don’t go out for meals much so was shocked) I can definately see why people are getting fatter in this nation if that is the norm for a standard serve. One smart couple shared a elephant size chicken parma and a cake…smart people. Me…I had a lovely falafel salad wrap without the chips and felt very satisfied.
Sorry off the beaten track there but a huge insight in portion control for me.
Well, having just turned 47, I am feeling better and fitter than I have in ages.
Joining the gym was the best thing I have done for myself in a very long time!!! In the 5 weeks since starting the gym, my fitness has improved immensely….now to lose the weight and I will be very happy lol.
Looking forward to part 2
Have an awesome day everyone
hugs
Chelle xxxx
Oh God, I was just thinking the other day, gee I work so hard.. and I dont look like a model!
It is so true as you get older the smallests movement in diet and wow.. makes a massive change.. Anyway I am grateful to be a size ten but would like to be better.. so am looking forward to the pointers…
Some guys at the gym suggested I get into out door riding.. am thinking as you get older you must have to do some really intense sport to stay in good shape as the women that are all raece… mmm
Craig – would love to smack you right about now. 14% bodyfat and a 28yo body? Hot on the heels of your love affair with peanut butter?? So not fair!
Sometimes I think we THINK about it too much. And create limitations and beliefs in our mind. At 31 and 41% bodyfat, I never thought I’d see slim again, let alone any muscle tone. But here I am, at age 40, pretty much the fittest and strongest I’ve ever been, teaching a martial art (still blows my mind) and with the belief that I can physically be whatever shape/condition/state I want. When I stress my body the right way, it responses .. as long as I don’t let my mind get in the way! And while I have no scientific evidence to back it up, when I BELIEVE that I am a fit, slim, strong, lean athlete, I can eat pretty much what I want with no effect .. but as soon as I start to doubt myself and think that at my age I shouldn’t be able to get away with eating this or drinking that, lo and behold, the weight starts to creep on.
I’m not sure I believe the mid-life hump thing. So like Christina, I’ll pass, thanks. No, the mid-life humps I plan to experience are of a different variety altogether!
Suz
Pssst Suz,
I was so tempted to address the implied mid-life hump reference but I thought I’d leave it to the expert. You never disappoint. Gotta love it.
Christina xxx
Craig, go away ( no dont really). Iam about to hit 47 and i think i missed the bus ages ago.
I used to love going walking until Mr arthritis in the knees appeared and pain was my best friend but i kept going.
I still feel like i was 21 but the body is ready for retirement.I have always had this mindset that i should be able to eat garbage like the others and be slim but the body didnt comply with that reasoning.Having always been a big girl when do you know it is time to do something? I hate wearing clothes made for “older” bigger ladies” ( no offense meant) and i have the “veranda over the toy shop” belly. But still to my reasoning i deserve to be slim and eat the garbage that i want and its not fair it isnt happening. As a friend once said to me “hmm I smell burning martyr” and told me to stop the “pity party” and smell the roses.
Problem is, I have been “partying ” for so long i dont know how to stop it. Someone slap me around the head several times then i might see what is in front of my nose and has been for ages
Pssst yourself. Hello! Single girl not gettin’ any .. whaddya expect??? I’m obsessed.
xxx
How do you measure body fat percentage?
Clearly some of you girls have a taken a little poetic license with the term “mid-life hump”. Nonetheless, I wish you well in your mid-life humping endeavours Suza and Christina.;)
Keep us posted.
Actually, don’t.
And thanks to the rest of you for your more mature and responsible comments.
xx
Kate, you can buy special calipers that measure it for you – usually in 3 spots for the DIY ones. Many digital bathroom scales also give you this measurement – although it’s arguable how accurate they are (still good for measuring CHANGE though). The best way is to get someone to do it for you. I know Harpers provide this service and most gyms also do the measurement at the start of any programme. It’s good to get it redone every 4-8 wks as it really is the best way to know where you should be aiming with weight loss and goal weight, etc.
Cheers,
Suz
Oh, phfffffttttt, Craig! Mature and responsible is SO overrated.
Hey, haven’t been ’round these parts for a while, been busy in the best possible way.
Quick question, this is not the first time I have heard you say, Craig that you have a slow metabolism, is this something you figured out while eating the same but putting on weight and therefore deduced? Or is it something you can measure?
Between hearing about survival modes and being stuck on a permanent plateau it gets confusing.
Oops, and another question, if eating less is good, how many cals/day is good? is there some way to work that out for the individual? (taking into account metabolism that is?) If you are going to answer this in part-2 just ignore me. lol
In general, anyone know of any good chi gong or tai chi DVD’s? I’m in a remotish area and there are no classes I can get to.
Wishing everyone a great rest of the day,
CJ
Yay!! I can’t wait for tomorrows post! I exercise regularly and thought I was fit – until I started jogging this weekend! EEEk! I am entering 10k run in 5 weeks so thought I should start training. My skin jiggled around my skeleton like a meat suit at every step and I felt like I was breathing through a straw!!! I couldn’t believe it. I am 47 and things have just started to change physically for me. Time to turn back the clock.
As Wills Smith says “If you STAY ready – you don’t have to GET readY” – this is a great mantra to live by I reckon.
“Your body seems to ‘age’ at an alarming rate and you start gaining weight like a teenage Sumo wrestler at fat camp. Things start to hurt, bits fall off and easy stuff gets hard. Real hard” Craig could you please stop following me around – you’re freaking me out man!
Ok, well while I laughed my head off, there was definitely an inner “eeek” too. What you say is terrifyingly true and the rate of decline is totally alarming! I think the hardest part is adjusting to and accepting the changes your body goes through. The hard part at the moment is finding the stuff that works cos the stuff that used to work for getting in shape just ain’t workin’ like it used to! All part of the joys of life I spose.
I definitely agree that listening to the clues is really important and most of all – accepting that you need to alter what you do and how you do it to adjust to changes in your body and your life. And always forcus on what you can do, not what you can no longer do cos every little bit helps.
I have recently had a nasty back injury and can’t do anything atm. I was an exercise procratinator, regularly irregular. Now I can’t do anything until I have healed I will never procrastinate again about exercise. This injury has changed my thinking completely, I am really having to change my eating habits since the injury as the weight began piling on, and I’m already overweight. When I can I will be making it just another part of my day.
Thanks for the infor Suz, I dont live in Melbourne (so cant get harpers to do it) might as my friend to do it.. and then re do in six weeks.. i am guessing 14% is awesome!
Sorry Suza (not Suz).
hi craig
kudos on the 14% bodyfat! you’ve mentioned quite a few times that you consider your metabolism to be slow and I understand that you are mostly referring to things we cannot change eg genetics, bodyshape/type, hormomes etc. however, i was wondering if you could post (or direct me to an earlier post) where you have discussed what methods you use to maxmise your metabolic rate (diet, weight training) and keep fat at bay through manipulating your diet and intensity of cardio. thanks, steph
Craig, aren’t the mature people the ones who are dead?
like the saying “growing old is inevatable, growing up an option”
Go girls and have fun i say.
Well said, Gail! Although .. you really shouldn’t encourage us. I’ll bet Craig is wishing you wouldn’t
. But really .. HE posted the title of the post and seriously, he ought to have known better!!
Craig,
I admire your resolve to stay fit and trim. It has surely come at a big price involving many a peanut-butter-less night. Even though I am yet to cross the thirty-something Rubicon and weight is not an issue yet, I am aware of the wheels of time grinding away. Wind the clock back? The elixir of youth… The idea is tempting, not to say obsessive for any woman. And, for the first time, I feel like believing it.