Disclaimer: The people I refer to in this post are not those who may have a weight problem for legitimate medical reasons. No, I am talking about people who are fat for behavioural reasons.
People who are fat by choice.
Blunt day.
If you’re out of shape and feeling precious, come back later.
Or not.
I know we’ve touched on this subject before, but I think we need to revisit it… some recent discussions and observations tell me so.
I’m (still) sick of people who have made themselves fat.. NOT taking responsibility for their fat selves. Listen to them and apparently their obesity is about everything but personal choice and responsibility.
It has nothing to do with them.
They are helpless victims of the big nasty corporations who mercilessly manipulate and control the masses. I didn’t realise that the multitudes who flock to McDonalds and Krispy Kreme are in fact fast-food Zombies, incapable of making decisions for themselves or experiencing free will.
Allegedly the fast food giants are using some kind of Jedi-mind-manipulation thing while we all sleep.
Clever.
And don’t forget those ultrasonic, low-frequency, invisible, silent, odourless, undetectable-by-human being, hunger-stimulation waves that they constantly pump into the atmosphere.
Didn’t have those in the fifties!
And all this time I’ve stupidly been thinking that when I gain some fat it’s my fault.
It’s so liberating to know that my big fat gut is not my responsibility.
Such a relief.
And it’s so much fun blaming someone or something else for my gigantic, bloated body.
It doesn’t help me lose weight of course.. but the venting gives me an emotional release for a few minutes… and that’s healthy.. right?
Okay, I know this all sounds a little sarcastic and excessive… but listen to the crap that comes out of some people’s mouths when they talk about their body/diet/lifestyle… and you’ll discover that this is how they think.
A couple of things to consider:
(1) We (the collective we) have never been more educated about health and all it’s related issues – diet, lifestyle, exercise, stress, obesity, work/life balance.
We live in the information/education age.
(2) We’ve never had more resources to help us get/stay in shape: trainers, weight-loss, specialists, fat-farms, books, DVD’s, programs, dietitians, life-coaches, low-fat-low-salt-low-sugar-low-GI-low-taste foods, surgery, pills, powders, potions, gizmos, gadgets, saturation TV coverage of anything to do with obesity and of course, the constant stream of never-seen-before scientific breakthroughs.
And despite this… we continue to get fatter.
And fatter.
Every day, educated, informed, intelligent people who don’t want to be fat… remain fat by CHOICE; every day they choose to eat more fat, sugar, salt and calories than their body needs.
They choose unhealthy foods.
They choose sugary drinks.
They choose alcohol.
They choose to drive to the drive-thru restaurant.
They choose to sit on the couch.
They choose to not exercise.
They choose to not read (or learn to read) food labels.
They choose not be responsible.
And still, the do-gooders run around with their arms in the air crying for corporate blood… “how can these companies be allowed to sell this stuff”, they ask.
Hey do-gooders.. here’s an old-fashioned concept for you… don’t buy it and don’t eat it!
Every day I talk to people who constantly eat foods they shouldn’t despite (1) knowing what they’re putting in their mouth is unhealthy and (2) being desperate to lose weight.
When we really think about it, it’s actually kind of amazing.
When you’re fat and educated (that is, know good food from bad) and you consistently put that burger or cake in your mouth, then you’re choosing obesity.
Yes we can analyse the behaviours, the triggers, the emotional issues and the psychology of it all… but when we dumb it down and be totally honest with ourselves (there’s a concept) we still have total control over (1) what we put in our mouth and (2) how fat we are or aren’t.
As long as we dance around the REAL ISSUES we will continue to get fatter.
And the simple, non-negotiable facts are:
(1) We eat too much
(2) We move too little
(3) We make excuses
(4) We make bad choices
(5) We don’t take complete responsibility
As a society I believe we are now at the point where the obesity epidemic will not be rectified by more education, more ab-blasters or more low-sugar cereals… I believe the answer is a massive global reality check… and a lesson in self-control and effective decision making wouldn’t hurt either.
Let me know your thoughts and where you’re from.
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Alex from FLorida, USA (second reply to this amazing collection of thought you simply call a “blog”…
“… I believe the answer is a massive global reality check…”
One word: BINGO!
Excellent thoughts Craig!
ouch…
that could have hurt…
but.. I agree
No one puts it quite like you do Craig!
Kirsty
Warracknabeal Vic
Hey Craig,
Not that you need it but I agree totally. Apparently it is not in vogue to be responsible for ones’ own actions and totally in fashion to blame everyone else.
Isn’t there a kind of freedom in owning responsibility?
Nothing wrong in seeking wisdom to repair the damage one has inflicted on oneself…..that is why we are here is it not?
Grasshopper signing off…..
Yes, yes and yes!
Liz N
http://www.thefitnesssolution.com.au
Australia
Tough love – tell it like it is! I can tell I’m going to LOVE this blog.
I’m in Manhattan (NYC)
Hey Alex.
We’re on the same page.
Nice.
Thanks for the nice words.
Peace.
Hi Kirsty.
Not everybody embraces my style.. apparently I’m offensive!
It’s a tough message but it’s the truth.
Cheers.
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Hello Grasshopper.
Thanks for stopping by.
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Hello Lizn.
Thanks, thanks and thanks!
You’re an EP… you get it.
Peace.
Hello Amy from Manhattan.
We all need a little tough love now and then don’t we?
Peace… and thanks for saying hi.
Go Rovers!
What are you talking about? You mean I CAN’T blame someone else and sue them for a gazillion dollars for the choices I make?
Might need to forward this one to the powers-that-be – I’m tired of government attempting to legislate what should fall in the realms of personal responsibility.
Okay, on the count of 3 – GROW UP and GET OVER IT! We do this to ourselves and need to accept and deal with the consequences.
Melbourne, Australia
Hi Craig
Wow no one says it better than you!! I agree 150% and the more people take responsibility for their choices the better off we all will be!!
Here’s a cyberhug for your words of wisdom ()
Leanne – Melbourne
Magda (from Adelaide)
Too true!! Too true Craig. And then those same people give the rest of us grief, jibes, putdowns because we strive to be better.
Would love to hear your take on that issue too.
Cheers Magda
Hello GG.
D’yathink the government wanna hear from me?
Maybe too much logic for them.
Peace.
Hi Leanne.
I love a good cyberhug… especially when it’s 6 degrees in Melbourne!
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Hello Magda…
don’t get me started on them!!
Enjoy your day.
ah craigo i lurve it when you are blunt!
yes yes and yeah baby! it’s all true and the more ppl got that into their thick skulls, a lot healthier a large proportion of the population would be.
i HATE it when ppl make excuses for being overweight. i KNOW why i am, cos i ate too much crap and didn’t move much for too flaming long! it’s not rocket science! sheesh!
take care gorgeous man
julie, hobart, tas
Hi Julie.
Me blunt?
Never.
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Hi Craig
We really do need to do something on a global level, it really is a BIG issue.
Thanks Craig
Sandra
Chilly Melbourne
Hi Craig,
you described me….
thanks for the wake up call
M
Melbourne
I like your blunt and to the point approach Craig. Hope you don’t mind, I’ve copied and pasted this article for my own blog, you might want to check out the comments I’ve got.
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Lia
Melbourne
Oops you might need this: http://www.liahalsall.blogspot.com LOL!! ;o)
craig,
i woke up this morning already tired of realizing it was another fat day for me, then thought of all the other people – especially women i know that have chosen to stay fat. i’ve always thought that about them but never about myself. today i see it is ME! so i decided to check the web to see any artcles on fat by choice – and there it was. thank you. a turning point for me – i will stay in touch. thanks – jan near chicago
I used to think that fat people were just lazy and brought it upon themselves. While that might apply to some I now believe that Fat is No Longer a Choice. I did about 3 weeks of research on this.
Check out my article on The Fructose Wars – How Fat is no Longer a choice I used to be obese as a child from all the Soda and candy I ate. I can now look past my prejudice and see the plight of these obese folks.
I am fat by choice. I gorge myself and eat enough for three people. Its total disregard for portion control. I had a baby a year ago and still haven’t lost the weight. Gained ten more pounds. I like this article. It turns wheels that need to be turned. I know some people might b offended but not me I like tough love.